Tuesday, March 21, 2006

Let's talk about sex....

So, yeah... Travis woke us up at 7:00 am. Lovely. We made the best of a potentially bad situation, though. Jeff closed off the hallway door, and put him in his room to play.

And, then we "played" a bit ourselves. For the first time in... well... I'm not telling you, but let's just say it's been so long, I probably qualified as a born-again virgin.

Yeah, yeah... time has definately gotten away from me... balancing motherhood, AP stuff like co-sleeping, breastfeeding... it's not all that easy. Plus, as I mentioned before, my libido has all but evaporated post-baby. We have a very loving, affectionate relationship. Plus, we have been married for almost 10 years... trust me... we've had plenty of sex during that time... so it's not the end-all-be-all... but it feels good to finally reconnect as a couple.

So... it was nice, but it was also uncomfortable, and a bit painful.... because of my episiotomy scar. Is this normal? Please tell me it gets better? Any words of encouragement? Help a sister out!


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2 comments:

Mrs. Flinger said...

"IT's been long enough I could be a born again virgin."

HAHAHHAHAHAHAHA

Um. ya. I had a C-section so what's my excuse? Sex changes after a baby. Now instead of "let's make it last." It's "hurry up! I think I hear the kid!"

Sexy.

Mama C-ta said...

Ugh, same here. And you know, it's pretty painful for me too and I also had a C-section, not sure what the deal is. Maybe the nursing thing is drying me out and lack of sex makes me, like you said a born again virgin. Sucks, finally do it and it's pretty painful!